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Tulips have gotten a bad rap…. April 24, 2013

People give tulips a bad rap, that they don’t last long. Well, here are three vases: on the right are the ones we got in yesterday, notice the yellow ones leaning over. They were laying in a box and tried to pick up their little heads.

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The ones in the middle are from last Monday. They were cut a bit shorter and are still perky.

The ones on the left are from two weeks ago. See how they are very open? They open like this as they mature and then drop their petals.

Thought you would like to know!

 

What Type of Sympathy Flowers Should I Send to the Service? January 30, 2012

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In previous blogs I’ve talked about where to send sympathy flowers.  Now, based on where you send them let’s talk about what type of arrangements to send.  Today’s blog post focuses on flowers sent to the service.

Typically, the most majestic and prominent arrangements are ones that come from immediate family members.  These arrangements include casket sprays, wreaths, and standing easel sprays.  If you are the parents, child, or sibling of the deceased these would be your first choice of flower arrangements to send.  Below (from left) are examples of a casket spray, cross, wreath with picture and standing heart wreath spray.

Casket SprayHeaven's ComfortMemorial WreathRose Garden Spray

Other friends and family also want to celebrate the life of their beloved as well.  If you are sending flowers for a relative or a close friend, smaller scale versions of these arrangements can be tailored to suit your needs.

Another way to really celebrate the person who passed is to ask for a customized tribute that reflects a hobby or interest, or special items that were meaningful to them. We can incorporate any item, and can put our creative ideas to work to make a very special piece.

Florists are there to help you when deciding what to order and are happy to offer assistance if you’re not sure what the appropriate arrangement would be.  Typically these arrangements are used at both the viewing and the Memorial Service.  Also, remember if you are an out-of-town family member or friend that timing the delivery is important as to not disrupt the flow of the services. As long as you order with enough time, your florist will be able to coordinate the delivery time with the funeral home or church who is hosting the service.

If you did not have a close relationship to the deceased or if there is a possibility that the flowers would not arrive to the services in time, sending arrangements to the home of the surviving relative is completely appropriate. See our blog post called Three Tips for Sympathy Flowers sent to the Home.

Every situation is unique and God’s Garden Treasures is here to help you in deciding what arrangements to send and where to send them.  Don’t hesitate to call us with any questions that you might have.

 

Sympathy Flowers: Where Do I Send Them? January 29, 2012

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Stength and WisdomSome of the most common questions posed to florists are questions regarding sympathy flowers.  The etiquette surrounding sympathy flowers can be confusing at best.  Hopefully we can shed some light on the subject and make it less confusing for you.

In most cases local family and friends are the first to know of the deceased’s passing as well as subsequent funeral arrangements.  This allows more than enough time to plan, order, and have the flowers delivered.  If the family chooses to have formal services, that could include a viewing or wake, ceremony, memorial service, and graveside burial service.  In most instances a funeral home are utilized to help plan and coordinate the services. There is no solid rule of thumb dictating who should send flowers where.  It is perfectly acceptable for family and friends to send flowers for use during the funeral services.  With that said, if you are an immediate family member it is most appropriate for you to send the flowers to the funeral home or chapel. It is expected that immediate family as well as close family and friends have the largest more majestic flower arrangements which are best suited for the funeral services

If you are are an out-of-town family member, distant relative, or distant friend, chances are you may not hear of the deceased’s passing until the last minute.  Don’t fear, it is still perfectly acceptable to send flowers. In this instance sending the flowers to the home of the surviving spouse, parents, or a relative is the most appropriate choice.  In fact, it is acceptable to send sympathy flowers up to four weeks after a loved one’s death.  Sending flowers to the home is the best option as you do not want the flowers arriving in the middle of the funeral services and disrupting the family.  If you are in doubt, ask the florist if they will arrive before the services start.  If there is any doubt of the timing, send the flowers to the home.Sweet Tranquility

Some families choose not to have formal services in a funeral home or chapel.  If this is the case, sending flowers to the home of a surviving family member is the most appropriate option.  It is also important to be aware that some families do not wish to receive flowers at all.  They usually state this in the death announcement or obituary.  If a family decides that they do not wish to receive flowers the may state “In lieu of flowers please…” Often times they ask that a donation be made to a charity, a hospice, or a surviving child’s trust fund.  Please be respectful of the family’s wishes.  If you insist on sending flowers, you could send them to a hospice care facility, hospital, or the family’s church in celebration of the loved ones life.

Sacred DutyTo sum it all up here is a quick guideline:

  • If you are local, immediate or close family, send the flowers to the funeral home.
  • If you are local friends of the family either funeral or home is appropriate.
  • If you are an out-of-town immediate family member or close friend, determine if the florist can deliver the flowers before the service. If in doubt send them to the home.
  • Remember it is appropriate to send flowers up to four weeks after the loved one’s death.

At God’s Garden Treasure we know that this is a difficult time and are happy to provide any assistance you may need.  Please see my blog for additional information on sympathy flowers, or go to our website to order sympathy flowers, or call us for a personal consultation with one of our Floral Consultants.